Schools do provide an important educational foundation through a structured curriculum and a supportive learning environment. However, real life often demands skills not always taught in the classroom. Education is truly a lifelong process, and some lessons are better understood through direct experience outside of school. Here are five essential skills that are best learned independently:
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1. Time Management
In school, study time is scheduled. However, in everyday life, the ability to create your own schedule, set priorities, and avoid procrastination is crucial. Good time management will make someone more productive, less stressed, and more able to carry out various responsibilities efficiently.
2. Emotional Intelligence (EQ)
EQ is the ability to recognize, understand, and manage one's own emotions and those of others. This encompasses self-awareness, empathy, emotional control, and social skills. Strong emotional intelligence is helpful in communicating, working in teams, resolving conflicts, and dealing with stress.
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3. Financial Planning
Many adults regret not being equipped with financial knowledge from a young age. Children need to learn the basics of financial literacy, such as managing expenses, saving, understanding debt, and learning about investing. This is crucial for achieving financial stability in the future.
4. Decision Making
Good decision-making skills require critical thinking, evaluating risks, and understanding the consequences of each choice. This can be honed through discussions, debates, or simple case studies that encourage children to consider multiple perspectives.
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5. Independence and Adaptation
Life doesn't always go according to plan. Children need to learn to be independent, flexible, and adaptable to changing situations. This independence will be a crucial asset as they enter adulthood, both in the workplace and in their social lives.
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Reference:
- Diponegoro University. Journal of Emotional Intelligence and Social Skills Development. Semarang: Diponegoro University.
- Ministry of Finance of the Republic of Indonesia. Financial Literacy Guide for Children and Teenagers. Jakarta: Ministry of Finance of the Republic of Indonesia.
